Sunday, February 06, 2011

Mr. Right

So I have this friend.  This best friend.  In fact she's the best friend I've had. Ever. She's my official other half.  She's never been one to jundge, never one to criticize.  This friend has been there for me for four years almost, and I, her.  She's been through everything I have and more.  She relates to me more than anyone I've ever met.  Even though we're practically complete opposites with everything, we get along better than any group of friends I've encountered.
My best friend has this "friend." Boyfriend, lover, soul mate.  I've seen her torn, happy, sad, joyous, depressed, hyper, apathetic, excited, angry, and giddy all because of this guy.
I've never really been too fond of this guy...
All right, I'll cut the crap.  Until recently, I hated him, loathed him.  I never wanted her with him; I never thought they would last. 
The times when we feel like this, as it is human nature to be extremely judgemental, we need to take  astep back.  Examine the situation.  Try to relate to it somehow. In the last few months, I'd like to say I've done this.
I've put all the negative things I thought about this guy aside.  I considered every detail of their relationship.  My conclusion? Love. Completely true.
As a couple, they've been through a number of things.  They've faced breakups and heartbreaks. Old exes and new obstacles.  Family issues and friend problems.  Together, they've grown and they've grown strong.
They've been toegether for just over a year.  How many teenageers do YOU know that can stick with one person that long? I only know a handful.
I'll admit, sometimes I don't like this guy as a person.  Together, however, they're invincible. 
When I look at them together, I can just tell they'll still be together fifty years from now.  They accept every aspect of each other, and though it's hard for them at times, they respect and support decisions either of them make.
Whatever life throws at them, I kno they'll take it in strife. No matter if it's two years or twenty.
I don't know any one else whose whole being lights up as hers does when she sees him.  She utterly adores him, and he, her.  When you watch them looking at each other, there's no doubt whatsoever. 
That's what real love is and I'm jealous.
So as her best friend, biggest fan, and person that looks up to her most (physically, I'm looking down). I accept that love and adoration and support them and their dreams.

<33*angie

2 comments:

  1. Awwww....I am kinda jealous I have not seen the two of them together now.

    ReplyDelete