It's time to move on

I want to move to New York City. I want to be an editor. There it is. It's out now, finally. Where's the problem in that? How do you tell the person you love with everything you've got that you want to move across the country? How can you not expect them to move with you, and how do you move on if they say, "No."? Now, there's a chance they won't deny you, but there's a chance they will.  
I'm a girl that's expected to get married right away and settle down and have kids. There's a free spirit inside that girl though, and I want so bad to get away. NYC isn't exactly the best place to have a family, but that isn't to say I don't want to get married right away because I do. As soon and Seth gets home, I want to get married, but a soon as I'm done in college, I want to move far, far away and pursue my dreams. 
What if The One has different goals and dreams than you? 
 I know I have to be happy to make anyone else happy, and New York is the way to do that.